How To Survive Awkward Holidays

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The most wonderful time of the year means the most awkward parties.

We all know that awkward holiday party that plagues this time of year. Whether it’s a work party, a party with new friends or people you don’t know well, or even a gathering with family that you haven’t seen or talked to since the last holiday party, the awkwardness is going to rear its head at some point. Here are a few tips to help you survive and maybe even thrive during your next awkward holiday party.

You grabbed yourself a drink and approached your next target at the party. John from work just showed up so you make a early joke and take a sip. What’s next? There are a few things you can talk about to help ease some of the awkward tension and silence from others who are forced to be at the party. After all, you shouldn’t have to suffer alone.

When you run out of topics, try broaching the topic of holiday plans. Everyone has something to do for the holidays. Some will want to brag, while others will want to complain and gripe about their plans. Either way, the narrative will fill the void and help smooth out the social awkwardness.

Looking for something else to strike up a conversation? One of the best things to do to spur on any struggling conversation is to make sure that you ask plenty of open ended questions and give answers that allow for additional conversation. Asking questions that can be answered with a simple yes or no can shut down a conversation before it even has a chance to begin. At the same time, giving answers that allow a rebuttal or more questions is a good way to keep the conversation flowing all night and also keep things interesting.

If all else fails, try giving a genuine compliment. Commenting on someone’s outfit, hair color, or even something that you know they are proud of can lead to other conversations and even help to strengthen a future friendship. If nothing else, you might have made someone’s day and compliments are a good way to spread holiday cheer.

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